Q: My wife is Jamaican and she is very aggressive. She has to win every argument and have the last word on everything. Initially, that is what attracted me to her. I love an aggressive take charge woman but her aggression is out of control. I am from Trinidad so I know about Caribbean women. How do you deal with a scarily strong Jamaican woman?

A: I don’t know your full situation as I am only hearing your side. In any event, it sounds like you loved what you signed up for and now you want to back out. Clearly you were seeking an “aggressive” woman but know that you have one you don’t want because you can’t control her. If you truly love your wife I suggest you seek professional marriage counseling.