Q: My ex-boyfriend is Jamaican and I absolutely loved his accent. He treated me very well but I broke up with him because he was cheating. He wants us to get back together. Should I forgive him? I really miss him. I love hearing his voice.

A: Hmm…Have you considered the fact that you may be more in love with his Jamaican accent that him? Now, there is nothing wrong with that preference but maybe it was a contributing factor to his cheating. I am not condoning cheating but if he realized you loved him just for his voice then he may have looked elsewhere to fill his other needs. If your basis for making up is because you miss his accent then be prepared for him to cheat again.