Q: I am a Jamaican woman living in Atlanta.  I am trying find a Jamaican man. Any suggestions?

A: The biggest mistake women make is seeking men in the places where other women are seeking men. Church, the club, friends parties etc. Why go where the competition is and you are just one of the many choices for the man? Seek men where there is no competition. Go to the places where men hang with men. For Jamaican men that would be the football (soccer) games, domino tournament, organized games and other things that men do where it is perceived that women have no interest. In most cases the only person you are competing against is you.